Fire It Up: Four Secrets to Reigniting Intimacy and Joy in Your Relationship

Fire It Up is a practical, supportive guide for couples who want to move beyond disconnection and struggle. Recognized with four book awards and many five-star reviews, it offers a clear path for anyone looking to bring more health and vitality to their relationship.
Modern life is stressful, and it’s easy for even the best relationships to feel off track. If you’re feeling distant, stuck in old arguments, or missing the spark you once shared, Fire It Up can help.
Drawing on decades of experience, couples therapist Carolyn Sharp shares a straightforward, four-step approach to rebuilding connection and understanding. With warmth, humor, and real-life insights, this book helps you get to the heart of what matters and make meaningful, lasting changes—together.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ "Carolyn’s empathy and down-to-earth style make Fire It Up a compassionate, practical guide for any relationship—not just romantic ones. Clever, funny, and full of useful tools, this is a book you’ll return to whenever you need a refresher on building stronger, more secure connections."-Amazon review.
Meet Carolyn Sharp
The Author
Carolyn Sharp always knew she wanted a career in helping people. She earned a master of social work from Portland State University and has extensive training in attachment, neuroscience, trauma, and mindfulness. Today, she is an experienced couples therapist with twenty-five years of training and practice in helping people build vital, vibrant, and secure functioning relationships through one-on-one and group couples coaching, workshops, retreats, and intensives. She combines her passion for helping people with her widespread experience to create the healthiest and happiest relationships possible.





